Etiquette for anal sex

I usually ask prior to meeting if anal is on the table.

From my prior experience, I feel comfortable with private gloryholes vs. ones that adult stores for anal.

My first experience with that was at a bookstore and I was not expecting it. It felt so good though. Now if I go to a bookstore I make sure I have a rubber with me.

But at a private I guess that's between you. I dont think it should be without any kind of confirmation. You can always back up though. One guy I go to has a little sign that says knock twice for ass.

Discussion prior. "Is your GH just sucking"? You need to set the guidelines. Example: "No touching except my balls and cock". "No recip, I just want head" !!! "If you want to fuck, I need to see a pic of your ass and condom only-no exceptions". Prior comment was spot on...." Any movement behind the curtain-aka: stopped sucking, etc. Pull out of hole, until you see a mouth or fingers. I take a pic, but I'm still holding the cock, so he knows where I am. Remember....you're the Dom cock, and sub cocksucker answers to YOU !!! Period.

The appropriate behavior is for the guy who wants to fuck you to ask you tactfully thru the gloryhole "raw or wrapped?" or equivalent phrase.

When he takes his mouth off of my cock and starts to move around I back off. If an ass appears in the hole I give a polite no thanks.